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Swami talks about sexuality and health among other topics in this interview
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Jul 2011
Yes, men relate to women with sex desires. Also women relate to men with the same thought. There is no end to it. The more a person gives freedom to sex desire, the more it comes. And then what happens? Like a deer running after a mirage, the result is to die of thirst. Those men, who relate to you with sex desire, related to other women in the same way. So their desire jumps from one woman, to another woman, and another woman; and when they get old the senses become incapable of enjoying sex, but the desire still jumps and it is the worst pain in life. I have seen people who tried free sex and they are not happy. I have seen people who are celibate, they are not happy either. I have seen householders living in a one-to-one basis, they are unhappy too. So what is the answer to attain happiness? The answer is to live by keeping limits on desires. It is hard tapas. One has to observe strict discipline made by himself. One who can do that can lead a happy life. Wife and husband relationship includes all relationships- master/servant, parent/child, teacher/student; friends and sexual partner. If one is in pain the other at once helps by taking the position of teacher, master, parent – whatever is needed. This is the beauty of the wife and husband relationship. If these supports are lacking, it is not a real marriage. The two of you are living together. Whenever one gets pain and depression the other should help. It’s like two people rowing the same boat. If one gets tired the other helps, and sometimes both row together to reach the goal faster. There is a mutual understanding that they both depend on each other’s energy, cooperation, and love.
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Americans have the wrong approach when it comes to sex. If is the approach and thinking that has caused weakness among men and women today, and has created a market for such thing as Viagra, erectile dysfunction and loss sexual desire.
An unhealthy person cannot enjoy a good sex life, a great love life or the benefits of a lover in bed. For men to enjoy a great sexual life a person must eat properly according to the rules of the body, so that their body can enjoy the maximum pleasures in this life. A person who can perform many sexual acts may never enjoy the real bliss of sex which their partner.
If we wash to see how weak our moderation day sexuality is one needs to look at the way ancient Kings, Sultans and Leaders handled sexuality these were great men also had a harem of women, who enjoy sexual dolinces very day without getting sick, weak or malnutrition. The fact that a king could have 20 – 100 concubines in his harem indicates that the king was very xxxxx and strong in his sexual energy. The fact that xxxxxxxxxx enjoyed many wives in the Far East.
Obviously, this is an indication that our bodies are getting weaker. Many people have been unable to enjoy one of the most important pleasures of having a human body, and that is sexual pleasure which should be enjoyed as much as possible in our life. Xxxxx like we eat, we xxxxxxxx and we drink, so also our body need love and sexual release, every day.
We must first accept the feet that in the days of kings and sultans, the diet of people consisted of more natural foods such as fruits, vegetable and fish. Today, our diets consist of red meat, chemically prepared. Bland or raw foods, fast food and foods in the body will create death like conditions for the person and so he or she will have a love of desire which will itself is weak sexual performance. So if a person wants to enjoy their love life or for that matter a great and healthy life, one must follow just a proper diet.
The Virility Diet
For the body to perform perfectly it must be understood like a mechanic will understand his car. She the minute he hears a strange noise in his car he will take it to a mechanic, but when he is unable to get an exertion, he blames his partner instead of realizing that it’s coming for his own body: such also is the difference in the night between Eastern and Western thinking. In the West, the car is taken care of more than the body. In the East, the body becomes more important and people have the mind set that if there is a problem in their life, it is because of some malfunction in the body. The food in the eastern continues have been designed and tested for thousands of years, by kings and sages, they knew exactly what types of foods or human being needs to eat for the body to work excellently, in all its functions and duties, special herbs and spices were grown to create a healthy body full of energy and free from germs and dangerous bacteria.
The first rules we need to acknowledge with regard to what humans eat, are:
1. Animals of humans cannot eat each other or else eventually this destroys the universe, if all monkeys ate each other, eventually there will not monkeys left.
2. The sexual desire to perform sex is a universal force to keep the universe continuous and the earth populated. Sexual desire is a powerful force that can take control of your life.
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Nov 2010
RECIPES FOR SEXUAL ENERGY
The sexual energy of the Human Body is the very foundation of a person’s energy measurement. When the sexual energy is weak then body will indicate that there are health problems . When the sexual energy is strong the energy level of the human body is very strong and high. The following Lifecode numbers provide a key to how strong the sexual energy is found in each person according to their birtthdate. To find your lifecode number add your month of birth to the day of birth and reduce it to a single digit…this is your lifecode number)
1. STRONG SEXUAL ENERGY – Can be weakened by disabilities and abuse
2. STRONG SEXUAL ENERGY – can be weakened by overweight
3. WEAK SEXUAL ENERGY – can be caused by high cholesterol and too much cold water or sweets
4. STRONG SEXUAL ENERGY – can be weakened by diabetes and stress
5. STRONG SEXUAL ENERGY – can be weakened by processed foods, sugars and red meat
6. WEAK SEXUAL ENERGY – because of meat, ego, who you eat from and black clothes
7. STRONG SEXUAL ENERG – can be weakened by illness, alcohol and drugs-avoid stimulants
8. WEAK SEXUAL ENERGY – can be weakened by constipation, twisted organs, over weight
9. STRONG SEXUAL ENERGY – can be weakened by laziness, impotence, loss of desire, abuse
SUGGESTED RECIPES FOR INCREASING SEXUAL STRENGTH or CURUING IMPOTENCE
1. Curried Cabbage
2. Egg whites fried , not the yellow part
3. Curried Seafood, or fried fish or shrimp
4. Spinach and shrimps
5. Sardines ( sandwich) with hot pepper and bread, other fishes like Tuna, macarel and herring
6. Fried King Fish , Tilapia or Salmon
7. A mixture of rice, olive oil, salt and hot pepper – good for vegetarians
8. Vegetarian Pita bread filled with olive oil , lettuce, tomatoes, cucumbers, green peppers, salt & pepper and carrots
9. Split pea soup, black beans, Chinese fried rice, watermelon
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Nov 2010
SPIRITUAL GENETICS
THE CAUSE OF MARRIAGE UNHAPPINESS – CAN BE PREVENTED IN CHILDHOOD
Many women are unable to become great wives or lovers because they cannot understand the difference between Sex and Love. Women who are not able to receive love think that giving herself freely in sex can bring her love. This is because she never received love from her father as a child, and so does not know how to receive it from her male partner
As a result of this lack of love in her childhood from her father she begins to assimilate love as a condition of sexual acts by watching movies that portray such a conclusion, as all movies starts with a kiss and rapidly move to a sex scene. This kind of woman will never be able to stay married to a man for long and will seek drugs or alcohol as a stimulant to in their life leading to short relationships and many men in their lives.
When a father hugs his daughter with great love an understanding then so also will the daughter know how to receive and give love to her future husband? This lack of love is a number one spiritual genetics that will make or break our society when it comes to stability in family structure.
The following list indicates the negative effect of spiritual genetics that our women can inherit that can contribute to the detriment of our society…The following are women who will have difficulty maintaining a marriage life with a husband.
- Women who thinks that they should use their beauty to attract men in their life
- Women who have been abused sexually by a family member at a young age before 14 years old
- Women who have not been hugged by their fathers when they were young
- Women who do not have a loving relationship with their father and brothers
- Women who cannot maintain a great relationship with their mothers and all elder females in the family
- Women who have had their first baby aborted in their first pregnancy
- Women who do not like to be touched by males and are usually commanding like men
- Women who have ran away from home at an early age
- Women who will provide sexual favors for men very quickly for money
- Women who will provide sexual favors for money.
- Women who will insist on paying for her meal on a date
The following are the types of women who will make great wives…
1. Women who will bring a guy a gift on a date
2. Women who are very feminine in nature…ie not abrupt and too outspoken
3. Women who are great cooks as that will keep the man in love with her always
4. Women who will be conservative in their shopping but not mean to point of not dressing
5. Women who are concerned about their beauty and looks as they will maintain attraction to the male
6. Women who are not drinking alcohol or addicted to drugs or shopping
7. Women who are ready to help the man when he troubled or sick
8. Women who put the man on a pedestal and defend him when he is not there to be criticized
9. Women who know how to sew, cook and keep a clean home are known as Great wives
10. A great wife thinks about her husband constantly and performs all her duties that will benefit her husband, her children and herself while she maintains a strong family structure. Vice versa the man must do the same when he works to take care of the family.
The main cause of all distress to the women is their relationship to their father. The way the father treats the daughter will create in that female the perceptions she has of all males. This is why when females are raised by single mothers THEY also will have difficulty with their husbands as they look for fatherly love in their relationships. Usually if there is a lack of fatherly love the female will think Sex is love and will sleep will all the men they are attracted to as if seeking some form of approval from the male figure as if they are her father. There are many women like this in the Casinos and Bars who are also strippers and prostitutes who have either been abused by their father or a family member and who have not had a great father figure to look up to. These women seek their peace by drinking and sleeping with different men in their lives. When a woman gets married and the man is hard working, she feels that he is ignoring her when all he is doing is trying to make her comfortable by working hard. Because of the domino effect of her negative feelings, and the arguments for attention from the devoted husband, the children she gives birth to will carry those traits in to their own lives. This is extends into each generation. This is spiritual genetics that we do not need in our society.
I know of a young woman who came to me in Canada. She was constantly in jail after almost every relationship she had, after over 20 men in her life she came to see me. I found out that she was sexually abused consistently by her father when she was 10 to 14 years old. Because of this trauma in her life she was unconsciously fighting back her father’s abuse in every man she met. This was her way of getting back at her father even though it was an unconscious action because her father would bail her out from jail many times.
Recently I was not so surprised when three young sisters who were older now, complained how their three uncles would make them take off their clothes when they were young, while their parents were away and ask them to play with their private parts. This traumatized these young women to the point where they would become cold to their husbands during love making. They were not able to be cured until they came to see me and followed a program that cleansed them of these past experiences.
The question is where we start eliminating these problems of spiritual genetics that has destroyed the very foundation of our society and is continuing to do so on a wide spread scale. If you think Diabetes and Cancer is destroying our society, think again, there is a greater disease that destroying the past, the present and the future, and that is sexual abuse of young children. It is the cause of divorces, homosexuality, and unhappiness in marriage life, miscarriages, abortions, teenage pregnancy, menstrual problems, excessive bleeding, infertility, and sexual frigidity. It is the very cause of disabled children as well as the failure of children to perform well in their school. Before we can cure all the other diseases, we must first cure this great plague called child sexual abuse which stands to destroy our women and the foundation of a good society. We should not stop after the movie Precious produced by Oprah, or the stories of Law and Order on incest. We should encourage the protection of all young females by educating fathers on how they should treat their young daughters and create incentives for excellent fathers.
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